|
A wisecracking professional matchmaker breaks the ice as 40 people aged in their twenties and thirties gather at a hotel for a blind date.
Mass blind dates are common in South Korea but there's something unusual about this event in Asan: the city government is the one playing Cupid.
"Matchmaking is no longer a personal business, it's the duty of the nation," Yu Yang-Sun, a municipal official organizing the recent event, said in the city 90 km south of Seoul.
"Newborn babies are hardly seen here these days. If the young grow older unmarried and produce no kids, the nation will no longer have the basic human resources to sustain itself."
Asan's birthrate is 1.08, much lower even than the low national average, according to Ko Bun-Ja, one of Yu's deputies helping organize the event.
Five hours into the mass blind-date session, 12 of the 40 had decided to keep dating - much to the delight of city officials.
After years of promoting family planning in the nation of 48.6 million, South Korea in recent years has become increasingly alarmed at the prospect of an aging society - with a huge pensions bill and too few workers to sustain economic growth.
The government is increasing the number of nursery schools and providing more financial support - such as tax breaks or subsidized baby-sitting - for married couples who start families. Cash gifts are sometimes provided for newborns.
But the birthrate - the average number of babies born during a woman's lifetime - remained near the world's lowest at 1.19 last year. Fears are growing that the population will start shrinking within a decade.
Officials say the nation's low birthrate is partly due to more women joining the workforce and the lack of a comprehensive welfare system.
The high cost of child-rearing is also a deterrent.
Household spending on education reached an all-time high of 39.8 trillion won ($29.5 billion) last year, up 7.7 percent from a year earlier despite the economic downturn.
"This is a country where it's really uncomfortable to marry and raise children, given the shocking cost of education," said Bang Jeong-Ju, 30, one of the women on the blind date in Asan.
"My friends all say that if you cannot afford to give your kids a really good education, just don't get pregnant. Otherwise, pregnancy would be a sin."
點(diǎn)擊查看更多雙語新聞
(Agencies) |
40名二三十歲的年輕男女聚在一個(gè)酒店參加一場(chǎng)相親會(huì)，一位俏皮的專業(yè)媒人打破了現(xiàn)場(chǎng)的沉默。
大型相親會(huì)在韓國十分普遍，但這次牙山市舉行的相親會(huì)有些特別：牽線搭橋的“愛神丘比特”是當(dāng)?shù)厥姓?/font>
組織這次相親會(huì)的市政官員柳揚(yáng)松說：“做媒不再是個(gè)人的事，而是整個(gè)國家的責(zé)任?！毖郎绞形挥谑谞栆阅?0公里。
“近年來在牙山很難看到新生兒，如果年輕人到了一定的年齡段不結(jié)婚不要孩子，那么國家將失去維持發(fā)展的基本人力資源。”
協(xié)助組織此次相親會(huì)的Ko Bun-Ja稱，牙山市的生育率為1.08，比已經(jīng)很低的全國平均水平還要低得多。
讓政府官員頗感欣慰的是，相親會(huì)進(jìn)行五個(gè)小時(shí)后，40人中就有12人已決定將繼續(xù)交往。
韓國目前的人口為4860萬，在推行計(jì)劃生育政策數(shù)年后，近年來韓國社會(huì)的老齡化趨勢(shì)日趨嚴(yán)重，養(yǎng)老金支出數(shù)額龐大，而可以維持經(jīng)濟(jì)發(fā)展的勞動(dòng)力則太少。
目前，韓國政府正增加幼兒園數(shù)量，并為結(jié)婚成家的人們提供更多的財(cái)政支持，例如減稅或?yàn)檎疹櫤⒆犹峁┭a(bǔ)貼等等，有時(shí)還為新生兒發(fā)放禮金。
但韓國去年的生育率（每個(gè)女性一生中平均生育孩子的數(shù)量）僅為1.19，仍接近全球最低水平。政府越來越擔(dān)心人口數(shù)量在十年之內(nèi)會(huì)開始減少。
政府官員稱，造成韓國低生育率的一部分原因是因?yàn)樵絹碓蕉嗟呐赃M(jìn)入職場(chǎng)，而且福利制度也不夠完善。
撫養(yǎng)孩子成本高也是一個(gè)阻礙因素。
去年韓國的家庭教育開支創(chuàng)歷史紀(jì)錄，高達(dá)39.8萬億韓元（合295億美元），盡管受到經(jīng)濟(jì)衰退的影響，但仍比前一年增加了7.7%。
30歲的Bang Jeong-Ju小姐參加了此次牙山市的相親會(huì)，她說：“在這個(gè)國家結(jié)婚和生孩子會(huì)過得很不舒服，因?yàn)榻逃M(fèi)用實(shí)在太高。”
“我的朋友們都說，如果你無法為孩子提供真正良好的教育，那就別懷孕，否則懷孕將是一種罪過。”
相關(guān)閱讀
“相親”英語怎么說？
blind date 相親
調(diào)查顯示：近五成大學(xué)生喜歡相親
美女配丑男 婚姻更美滿
（實(shí)習(xí)生許雅寧 英語點(diǎn)津姍姍編輯） |
