Quora上一位網(wǎng)友提問：愛情中最棒的技巧有哪些？網(wǎng)友們紛紛根據(jù)自己的經(jīng)歷給出了答案。下面9個(gè)小技巧或許可以讓你的愛情更甜蜜。 

1. Keep a secret running list of stuff you partner wants to do or have.
1. 偷偷記下另一半想要的東西和想做的事情。

Then, on a special occasion or when you have the money, take that special weekend trip, buy that nifty thing.
然后在一個(gè)特別的時(shí)刻或是當(dāng)你攢夠錢以后，帶TA來個(gè)特別的周末之旅，或是買下那個(gè)TA早就想要的小玩意兒。

2. After a fight go for walk and hold hands.
2. 吵架之后牽著手一起散步。

Conversations are easier to have when you’re side-by-side rather than facing one another. Plus, can you really stay mad at someone when their hand is in yours?
肩并肩的談話要比面對(duì)面容易得多。而且當(dāng)你握著對(duì)方的手時(shí)你怎么還會(huì)生TA的氣呢？

3. Use a silly codeword to ease tension during a fight or tough conversation.
3. 在吵架或爭(zhēng)執(zhí)時(shí)使用一些兩人的暗語來緩解氣氛。

Make a deal that if one of you says your secret defusing code word, you’ll both stop arguing, hug, and find a solution. Chiminychonga!
你們可以約定好，其中一人說到緩和氣氛的秘密暗語比如Chiminychonga，你們就停止?fàn)幊?，擁抱并尋找解決方法。

4. Date your longterm partner like you’re still in the honeymoon stage.
4. 跟已是老夫老妻的另一半來一場(chǎng)蜜月般的約會(huì)。

Pretend that you’re new to each other that you still have to work hard at being an awesome partner (even though you’ve already landed them).
你們可以假裝剛剛認(rèn)識(shí)對(duì)方，所以得非常努力地博取對(duì)方好感（即便你們?cè)缇驮谝黄鹆耍?/p>

5. When you’re together, give them your full attention.
5. 兩人在一起的時(shí)候，要把全部注意力都放在對(duì)方身上。

Like don’t even scroll through your Instagram. Make your person feel heard by really listening.
比如不要不停地刷手機(jī)，要讓對(duì)方感受到你在認(rèn)真傾聽。

6. Give praise.
6. 不吝嗇你的夸獎(jiǎng)。

Tell you’re partner how proud you are they got something done, took a step, faced a challenge, etc., no matter how small.
當(dāng)你的另一半成功完成某件事、取得某種進(jìn)步或面對(duì)某項(xiàng)挑戰(zhàn)時(shí)，要告訴TA你為TA驕傲，無論大小。

7.Say thank you constantly even for small stuff.
7. 即使是小事情也要常說謝謝。

Look, even though they’re minor tasks, no one wants to replace the toilet paper roll or hang up your dumb shirts. Just let your partner know you appreciate their contribution to your little world.
雖然是一些不值得一提的瑣碎事情，但沒人愿意為你換廁紙、掛衣服等等。所以要讓你的另一半知道你感謝TA為你所做的付出。

8. If you don’t really care about a thing, don’t argue about it.
8. 如果你真的不在意一件事情，就不要因此爭(zhēng)執(zhí)。

Let little stuff go and only make it a thing if it’s something truly important to you.
不要計(jì)較一些小事，除非這件事對(duì)你來說真的相當(dāng)重要。

9. Give empowering gifts.
9. 贈(zèng)送鼓勵(lì)性的禮物

If you partner has always wanted to learn tap dancing or go sky diving or travel solo but is too scared to take the leap or spend the money, show them your support and encouragement by gifting them the experiences they want.
如果你的另一半一直想學(xué)跳踢踏舞、想去跳傘或獨(dú)自旅游但又不敢冒險(xiǎn)或是怕花錢的話，你就要表示出你的支持和鼓勵(lì)，幫助TA完成心愿。

來源：滬江英語