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 A couple embraces as a subway train arrives in the station in New York May 24, 2010. |
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Couples who get to know each other before being intimate have a better chance of having a lasting relationship, but in some cases even a casual fling can lead to true love, according to a new research. Most of the 56 percent of 642 adults questioned in the study who said they had waited until they got serious before they had sex reported having a high quality relationship. The number was higher than for the 27 percent of people who had sex while dating casually and the 17 percent who were intimate while in a non-romantic relationship. "There's something about the characteristics of people who wait before sex that is linked to higher-quality relationships," said sociology professor Anthony Paik of the University of Iowa. Paik, who reported the findings in the journal Social Science Research, said the research suggests that the courtship process acts as a screening mechanism. "The debate is 'why can't we have sex now?' The expectation is that sex should occur very quickly. But doing so, you're losing out on some information that might be useful," he explained in an interview. It's almost an economic equation, he added. "On average, the more costly the process leading into the relationship, the more likely it is to work. That's what the data would suggest." But Paik said the findings did not show that an early sexual relationship had a direct negative impact on relationships. When he filtered out people who said they had frequent non-romantic or casual dating sexual relationships he found that the gap in relationship quality between serious and nonserious contexts of sexual activity disappeared. "It means it's possible for two strangers to lock eyes in a bar, and go home together, and actually end up in a long-term relationship," Paik said. (Read by Renee Haines. Renee Haines is a journalist at the China Daily Web site.) (Agencies) |
一項最新調(diào)查表明，在確定親密關(guān)系之前彼此互相了解的情侶感情更有可能長久，但在某些情況下，一夜情也能帶來真愛。 在接受調(diào)查的642名成年人中，56%的人稱他們在兩人確立戀愛關(guān)系后才發(fā)生性關(guān)系，這其中的大部分人稱自己的感情質(zhì)量較高。 另外有27%的人稱他們在約會期間就隨意發(fā)生了性關(guān)系，17%的人在發(fā)生關(guān)系時與對方還不是戀人關(guān)系，在這兩種情況下，報告感情質(zhì)量高的人的比例都不如前者高。 艾奧瓦大學的社會學教授安東尼?帕伊克說：“在發(fā)生性關(guān)系前耐心等待的人有一些特點，這些特點與高質(zhì)量的戀愛關(guān)系有關(guān)?！?/p> 這一在《社會科學研究》期刊上發(fā)表的研究結(jié)果稱，該研究表明求愛的過程發(fā)揮了篩選機制的作用。 他在一個采訪中解釋說：“問題的焦點是‘為什么我們現(xiàn)在不能做愛？’。人們期望性行為會很快發(fā)生。但如果這么做，你就失去了一些可能有用的信息。” 他說，這相當于一個經(jīng)濟學方程式。 “一般來說，確立戀愛關(guān)系的成本越高，其運轉(zhuǎn)良好的可能性越大。這是調(diào)查數(shù)據(jù)告訴我們的。” 但帕伊克稱，調(diào)查結(jié)果并沒有顯示過早發(fā)生性行為對感情有直接的負面影響。 帕伊克將在非戀愛關(guān)系時頻繁發(fā)生性關(guān)系和和隨意約會期間發(fā)生性關(guān)系的人單拿出來進行分析后發(fā)現(xiàn)，無論是在認真還是不認真的關(guān)系狀況下發(fā)生性關(guān)系，這兩種情況下的感情質(zhì)量沒有太大差別。 帕伊克說：“這意味著，兩個陌生人在酒吧相遇，相互吸引，然后一起回家，最終成眷屬的可能性還是存在的?！?/p> 相關(guān)閱讀 （中國日報網(wǎng)英語點津 陳丹妮 編輯：蔡姍姍） |
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Vocabulary: fling: a short sexual relationship with somebody（短暫的風流韻事） lose out on sth.: 得不到（需要或覺得應有的東西） |
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